marrying a girl and adopting kids sounds adorable oh my gosh that’d be so lovely and I 100% support that idea. but!! not all relationships need to be sexual relationships! Feeling romantic attraction but not sexual attraction is typically asexual behavior! asexuality is where you feel little to no sexual attraction/drive, but instead have romantic and platonic relationships with people.
Of course, if you feel sexual attraction to guys then the situation is a little more complicated. but if you feel the same general, romantic interest to men as you do women, there’s a definite likelihood that you’re somewhere on the ace spectrum! and there’s no way you “can’t” be yourself. your religion might prevent you from being open about your romantic and sexual identity, but that doesn’t mean it’s a sin to be who you are. If your God made you, they made all of you. every aspect of your personality and composition and the people you’ll love and the emotions you’ll feel.
And I know it’s not so easy, juggling sexuality with religion, but I want you to know that it is never a sin to be yourself. In my eyes, it’s only a sin if you hurt yourself or others through your actions. So please, don’t hesitate to learn more and understand yourself for fear of upsetting people! And if ever you’d like someone to talk to, please don’t hesitate to let me know. In the wise words of Dr. Seuss, “Be who you are and say what you feel, as those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” u w u<33